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2020 Bucket List

2020 Bucket List

A new year typically means a new beginning, and with that fresh start comes new dreams. I figure what better way to start 2020 than publishing my bucket list for 2020. I have chosen the Top 10 Destinations that I would like to visit in 2020. Does making this list mean that I will be able to check everything off? No, it doesn’t, but it takes zero dollars to dream and only you to believe in yourself. I think it will be fun to look back on this list at the end of 2020 and see what I was able to accomplish this year.

1. Bora Bora

This will always be on my bucket list until I visit. I have been dreaming of Bora Bora for as long as I can remember, and with it being one of the most exotic and expensive destinations, it has remained at number one for years. Bora Bora looks like paradise on Earth, and if it is anything like the Maldives, then it is paradise. I’ve had friends go and tell me about how amazing their experience was, and honestly, it just gives me more motivation to go. 

2. Day of the Dead in México

I lived in México for three years, and I never went to Michoacán or Oaxaca for Day of the Dead, which is something I wish I would have done. Michoacán and Oaxaca are the epicenters for Day of the Dead celebrations in Mexico. Although I believe everything happens for a reason and I probably didn’t participate in any Day of the Dead activities back then because I was too young and immature to cherish the moment truly. One of my goals this year is to participate in Día de Los Muertos (Day of the Dead) festivities. Although the name Day of the Dead sounds morbid, the truth is that it is more of a celebration of life than it is death. 

3. Burning Man 2020

Burning Man is an annual festival in the desert (Black Rock Cities) where artists and creatives alike come together to create art, passion, and experiences that ensure memories that will last a lifetime. Before Burning Man became a popular event for influencers, it was something that I always wanted to experience. I love art and music, and combining both of those into one event where people feel free to express themselves in whatever way they choose, is the best-case scenario. It’s the modern-day Woodstock with new-age hippies. My friends who have gone said that they did not return as the same person. They were enlightened, and their hearts were full, and I want to experience that same feeling. 

4. Cappadocia, Turkey

I am addicted to travel content on Instagram, and one of the things that I see posted the most is Cappadocia, Turkey. I’ve been to Istanbul, and while I was there, I really wanted to make it to Cappadocia, but I was limited on time. What brings so many people to go to Cappadocia? Hot air balloons. Cappadocia has daily hot air balloon rides over rock formations that surround the city. The videos and pictures are almost fairytale-esque. I’ve always dreamed of going on one of the famous hot air balloon rides over Cappadocia, and I will not give up on this dream until it is accomplished. 

5. Dublin, Ireland

I have tried to go to Dublin on two different occasions, and each time something happened with the flights, and they had to be canceled or changed to where Dublin was no longer part of the itinerary. Why do I want to go to Dublin so bad? The truth is that through meeting people while traveling and being told their experiences, Dublin sounds like a fun city with such a distinct culture that it must be experienced at least once in my lifetime. Not only do I want to visit Dublin, but I want to experience the Irish countryside for myself. The travel photos that I see are breathtaking, and since I love hiking and nature, what better place to experience both? Plus, the third try is a charm. 

6. Machu Picchu, Perú

What is a bucket list without one of the wonders of the world? Unless you have already checked all seven off, then no bucket list is complete without at least one of the wonders. I previously had a trip to Peru planned out, which included seeing Machu Picchu, but destiny stepped in and decided that I would break my ankle a week before the trip. Needless to say, Machu Picchu didn’t happen. My dreams of Machu Picchu may have been put on hold, but that doesn’t mean that they have gone away. I want to be able to sit and look down on the valley in which it sits and take in the panoramic views while trying to breathe it all in. Also, where else can you get an alpaca selfie with epic views?

7. Monteverde, Costa Rica

 I lived in Costa Rica’s southern neighbor, Panamá, and on multiple occasions, I said that I wanted to go to Costa Rica. For one reason or another, I never made it. Costa Rica is known for its beaches and jungles, which in all honesty, Panamá has plenty of as well. The real reason why I want to go to Costa Rica has nothing to do with jungle and beaches, although they will be enjoyed while I am there. I want to go to Costa Rica for their hummingbirds. You read that right. Hummingbirds. In Monteverde, Costa Rica, there is a hummingbird sanctuary where not only can you see different species of hummingbirds, but they will land on your hands. I love hummingbirds, and everyone in my family feels a close connection to them. The videos that I have seen of hummingbirds flying around people in Monteverde are what dreams are made of. 

8. Cinque Terre, Italy

Although I have been to Italy on several occasions, I have never made it to Cinque Terre. Cinque Terre is Italian for “Five Lands,” and the reason for the name is that Cinque Terre consists of five coastal towns in Italy. If you google it, you will see that the houses in each of the towns are colorful and vibrant and sit upon cliffs with the sea below them, it creates a beautiful view beyond Instagram worthy. Cinque Terre is what pops into my mind when I think of Italy. Most people think of Rome, Milan, or Florence, but not I. Cinque Terre has been on my bucket list for a while, and each time I have been to Italy, I later regret not going to Cinque Terre. I plan to make visiting Cinque Terre, the number one thing that I do the next time I am in Italy.

9. Petra, Jordan

As I mentioned earlier, no bucket list is complete without one of the wonders of the world, and this bucket list just so happens to have two wonders of the world. Petra is a city created by tombs and temples carved into pink sandstone cliffs. It is an archeological site that brings thousands of tourists each year to the middle of the southern Jordanian desert. I don’t know if it is the pink sandstone or the fact that Petra seems to be in the “middle of nowhere” that attracts me the most and makes me want to go there. There is also the other obvious factor that it is a world wonder, but either way, it is a place that I have always wanted to experience for myself. 

10. Marrakech, Morocco

Last, but definitely not least, is Marrakech. Since the very first time that I went to Spain, I wanted to take a ferry to Morocco. One of the reasons why I never did was because of time constraints on each of my trips, but it was always something that I wanted to do. Part of the appeal of Morocco is the fact that it is part of Africa, and prior to 2017, I had never been to any country on the African continent. Currently, I have only been to one, Egypt. Morocco has this North Africa meets Middle East vibe to it, seeing how most of the country speaks Arabic and is Muslim, and the preferred form of travel through the desert is still via camel. Not only does it have a distinct culture, but they also have one of the coolest accommodations that I have seen. Riads. Riads are Moroccan guesthouses that you can rent while in Marrakech, they are basically luxury Airbnbs. Marrakech seems exotic, luxurious, and cultured, which are three things that can’t always be found in one destination, and it is one of the reasons why I want to visit so badly. 

This wraps up my 2020 Bucket List. Although it is a bucket list/dream list, I also consider it a list of goals. As you can see, some of these destinations and things to do have been on my bucket list for many years, and some are newer. 2020 may just be the year that I accomplish them all. Either way, the best way to turn your dreams into reality is to set them as goals and watch as you go ticking each off one by one.

I hope my 2020 Bucket List has inspired you to start writing down the destinations that you would love to visit during 2020, and don’t forget that no place is either too big or too impossible to visit. Below I have included photos of places that were once bucket list destinations/dreams that over the years I have been able to mark off of my list. Just remember that no dream is ever too big. When there is a will, there is a way.

Every Great Story Starts With, “One Time in Mexico…”

And that is exactly how this story begins, but before we get there, let me give you some background information to help you better understand how I ended up living in Mexico. I was 17, and it was the morning after my high school graduation. I had spent the night in a hospital room, watching my dad pass away. June 11th, 2006, at 7:00 a.m. my entire world stopped. For the very first time, I was physically somewhere and mentally totally checked out. The building could have collapsed around me, and I wouldn’t have felt a thing. The one disease that has affected most of the population either by having it or by knowing someone who does. Cancer. It’s a bitch, and it doesn’t care who it destroys in its path.

I was already in a life transition, to begin with when my father passed away. High school graduation means college was the obvious next step for me. When my dad died, I spiraled into a deep depression and just went through all of the scenarios that I had lived out with him and thought of the things I could have done better or what I could have changed. My father and I didn’t have the best relationship, and I blamed myself for things which only led to more guilt and depression. I told my mom and stepdad that I wasn’t ready for college and that I needed time to “find myself.” Then my best friend from middle school decided to drop a bomb on me and tell me that she was moving back to her hometown in Mexico. I felt like I was losing everyone that I loved either to death or circumstance.

My friend moved to Mexico and called me one day and told me that I should come to visit. I was lost in guilt, grief, and depression hell, so I figure, why the hell not? Plus, what better way to “find yourself” than at the bottom of a bottle of tequila? (There are SO many better ways, but I was 18 and wild, young and free. That’s my story, and I’m sticking to it.)

Her cousin and I decided to drive from Louisville, KY, to San Luis Potosí, San Luis Potosí, Mexico. If you aren’t Mexican, you probably just said, “Where the hell is San Luis Potosí?” I had the same reaction. It’s almost smack dab in the middle of Mexico. Here is a map of Mexico for reference. https://www.lonelyplanet.com/maps/north-america/mexico/

Anyways, 38 grueling hours later I was in the middle of Mexico. It was so different than Louisville but similar at the same time. It had that big city/small-town feel to it. I told my parents that I would be visiting for 2 weeks and then headed back home to be a responsible, young adult and go to school. Flash forward two weeks, and I’m on the phone to my mom saying, “Hey mom so there is this event in San Luis called La Feria de San Luis, and everyone keeps telling me that I can’t miss it, so I’m going to stay another two weeks.” To put it lightly, she wasn’t happy, but she knew there was really nothing she could do to make me come home immediately.

Another two weeks went by, and I was starting to love life again. What 18-year-old girl doesn’t enjoy a life filled with new experiences, exciting cultures, making new friends, partying like there was no tomorrow and just ignoring all adult responsibilities? Not many. I did what anyone in my position would do. I canceled my return flight home and decided to stay and live there.

The next three years of my life were filled with flights back and forth between Mexico and the U.S., traveling all over Mexico, partying that puts any person’s night in Las Vegas to shame, (except for maybe the wolfpack in The Hangover) getting into a horrible car accident and hanging out with a federale for a few days, ALL the street tacos that you can imagine, chugging more tequila than water, because I was trying to avoid Montezuma’s revenge, or at least that was my excuse at the time.

Looking back on it, there are way better things that I could have done in Mexico than drink and eating spicy food and ending up with gastritis. To be honest, our youth is for making mistakes and pretending to be invincible. We all have regrets, but those years in Mexico are not one of them, and they are actually a highlight of my life. Moving to a foreign country is what dragged my ass out of a deep depression and helped me rediscover my passion for life and travel.

*Typically, I would post a photo of me somewhere living my best life in Mexico, but seeing how I just described 3 years of partying and drinking to oblivion, (my poor liver), I’ll save everyone’s eyesight and not share that hot mess.

** Also, for those of you wondering/questioning, yes, I did eventually go to college and made my mama proud! 😉


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